[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.labelle.cz\/prosim-smim-dekuji\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.labelle.cz\/prosim-smim-dekuji\/","headline":"Pros\u00edm, sm\u00edm, d\u011bkuji\u2026","name":"Pros\u00edm, sm\u00edm, d\u011bkuji\u2026","description":"Mnohokr\u00e1t se v\u00e1m p\u0159i nakupov\u00e1n\u00ed v obchod\u011b stane, \u017ee vid\u00edte vztekaj\u00edc\u00ed se d\u00edt\u011b vyk\u0159ikuj\u00edc\u00ed v\u011btu: ,,j\u00e1 to chci.“ Kolikr\u00e1t vid\u00edme rozhovor mezi matkou a d\u00edt\u011btem – podej mi to, p\u0159ines mi tamto, dej mi pen\u00edze… Pokud to takhle je u mal\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed, u pubert\u00e1ln\u00edch d\u011bt\u00ed to m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt mnohem a mnohem","datePublished":"2017-06-30","dateModified":"2023-05-07","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.labelle.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.labelle.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/9d25b0af9840660883a67790aa4f595ddc226aa4680c4cf7bc03a25c14fcef85?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/9d25b0af9840660883a67790aa4f595ddc226aa4680c4cf7bc03a25c14fcef85?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"labelle.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.labelle.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a291931_w2282_t1504197281.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.labelle.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a291931_w2282_t1504197281.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.labelle.cz\/prosim-smim-dekuji\/","about":["\u017deny"],"wordCount":581,"articleBody":"Mnohokr\u00e1t se v\u00e1m p\u0159i nakupov\u00e1n\u00ed v obchod\u011b stane, \u017ee vid\u00edte vztekaj\u00edc\u00ed se d\u00edt\u011b vyk\u0159ikuj\u00edc\u00ed v\u011btu: ,,j\u00e1 to chci.“ Kolikr\u00e1t vid\u00edme rozhovor mezi matkou a d\u00edt\u011btem – podej mi to, p\u0159ines mi tamto, dej mi pen\u00edze… Pokud to takhle je u mal\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed, u pubert\u00e1ln\u00edch d\u011bt\u00ed to m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt mnohem a mnohem hor\u0161\u00ed. Jestli\u017ee nemaj\u00ed vybudovan\u00fd respekt od \u00fatl\u00e9ho v\u011bku, v obdob\u00ed puberty, kdy maj\u00ed pocit, \u017ee sv\u011bt jim le\u017e\u00ed u nohou a st\u0159edem vesm\u00edru jsou oni, mohou sv\u00e9 ego a odvahu pou\u017e\u00edvat p\u0159i h\u00e1dk\u00e1ch s rodi\u010di.Takhle to ale p\u0159ece nejde. Kolik \u00fasil\u00ed v\u00e1s st\u00e1lo se o n\u011bj postarat, kolik noc\u00ed jste nespali, kdy\u017e byl nemocn\u00fd, kolik p\u0159es\u010das\u016f v pr\u00e1ci jste s man\u017eelem museli vz\u00edt, aby mohl jet na ly\u017ea\u0159sk\u00fd v\u00fdcvik \u010di na \u0161kolu v p\u0159\u00edrod\u011b. A pak v\u00e1s \u0161estn\u00e1ctilet\u00fd klacek po\u0161le skoro n\u011bkam do d\u00e1li. Kde se stala chyba?Mohlo by to b\u00fdt pr\u00e1v\u011b kv\u016fli tomu, \u017ee u mal\u00fdch d\u011bt\u00ed je pot\u0159eba budovat \u00factu. A \u00facta se projevuje pr\u00e1v\u011b t\u00edm, \u017ee v\u00e1m d\u00edt\u011b \u0159ekne, maminko, pros\u00edm, pod\u00e1\u0161 mi to? D\u011bkuji. Tato sl\u016fvka jsou velice d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e1 a je pot\u0159eba to d\u011btem \u0159\u00e1dn\u011b v\u0161t\u011bpit. Je pot\u0159eba, aby d\u011bti znaly z\u00e1klady slu\u0161n\u00e9ho chov\u00e1n\u00ed, kam spad\u00e1 tak\u00e9 nap\u0159\u00edklad zdraven\u00ed. Aby se tohle v\u0161echno ale mohly nau\u010dit, mus\u00ed pro n\u011b b\u00fdt vzorov\u00fdm p\u0159\u00edkladem pr\u00e1v\u011b rodi\u010de. D\u011bti od rodi\u010d\u016f cht\u011b necht\u011b odkoukaj\u00ed velkou \u010d\u00e1st jejich chov\u00e1n\u00ed. Pokud chceme m\u00edt slu\u0161n\u011b vychovan\u00e9 d\u011bti, mus\u00edme se slu\u0161n\u011b chovat i my.Dne\u0161n\u00ed mlad\u00ed lid\u00e9 nejen\u017ee nemaj\u00ed \u00factu k vlastn\u00edm rodi\u010d\u016fm. Nemaj\u00ed \u00factu dokonce ani ke star\u0161\u00edm lidem a dokonce ani k nad\u0159\u00edzen\u00e9mu v pr\u00e1ci. Mnohdy se i v pracovn\u00edm pom\u011bru chovaj\u00ed velice neslu\u0161n\u011b a drze a dovol\u00ed si v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 u\u017e opravdu p\u0159ekra\u010duj\u00ed hranici.Takhle to ale p\u0159ece nechceme, ne? D\u0159\u00edve to neexistovalo. V\u0161echny d\u011bti m\u011bly respekt, chovaly se uctiv\u011b ke star\u0161\u00edm, pom\u00e1haly, kde bylo pot\u0159eba. Bylo to naprosto automatick\u00e9. D\u011bti nebyly rozmazlen\u00e9, alespo\u0148 venkovsk\u00e9 d\u011bti ur\u010dit\u011b, a um\u011bly si v\u00e1\u017eit i mali\u010dkost\u00ed.Dnes nast\u00e1v\u00e1 probl\u00e9m pr\u00e1v\u011b i v tom, \u017ee mnoho d\u011bt\u00ed dostane t\u00e9m\u011b\u0159 v\u0161e, na co si uk\u00e1\u017eou prstem, jsou rozmazlen\u00ed a drz\u00ed. Jakmile nen\u00ed po jejich, okam\u017eit\u011b nastane sc\u00e9na, za\u010dnou se vztekat a je zle. V t\u011bchto p\u0159\u00edpadech je ale d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e1 d\u016fslednost. Hlavn\u011b nepovolit, proto\u017ee jestli si nebudete st\u00e1t za sv\u00fdm, d\u00edt\u011b to velice rychle prokoukne a bude toho zneu\u017e\u00edvat.Tak\u017ee pokud chceme vychovat slu\u0161n\u00e9 d\u011bti, je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 nerozmazlovat, u\u010dit je respektu a \u00fact\u011b, u\u010dit je z\u00e1sady slu\u0161n\u00e9ho chov\u00e1n\u00ed a u\u010dit je milovat, proto\u017ee l\u00e1ska je d\u016fvod, pro\u010d to vlastn\u011b v\u0161echno d\u011bl\u00e1me.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        3.8\/5 - (10 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Pros\u00edm, sm\u00edm, d\u011bkuji\u2026","item":"https:\/\/www.labelle.cz\/prosim-smim-dekuji\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]